Dear NAME

We are most grieved by [Family Relationship – e.g. Great Aunt] DECEASED’s death. [Describe character of the deceased – kindness / humour / advice / counsel]. [His / Her generosity, courtesy and experiences were rare qualities that we will all remember.] 

Please find comfort in the fact that [you lived happily with [Family Relationship] [Name] all these years] / [you were with [him / her] at the final days of [his / her] life. [He / She] was very proud of you and I am sure she is smiling down at you from heaven right now. May [he / she] rest in peace.

We know that words are not much comfort and hope there is something we can do that would soften your grief. Please let us know how we can assist in any way for the funeral arrangement. We will stand behind you and provide our full support all the way.  

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